Dating one guy at a time

I felt sneaky and unethical dating two guys at a time.I didn’t know how to deal with two men texting and calling me or how to handle their sexual advances.That rarely worked out for me; he would sense my needy relationship agenda, and he would stop calling me.

Not only is it OK to date several people at one, I believe it’s the path to finding real more than one man at a time because, in a nutshell, I lacked confidence and self-worth." data-reactid="12"I always envied women who could attract, date and string along multiple people.

As with most topics when it comes to relationships, I'm sure it goes both ways.

I know many men who would be totally fine with it, but I also know many men who would be horrified by the idea.

But equally, keeping your options open is about being non-commital and this is the mainstay of being emotionally unavailable and creating limited experiences that keep you ‘safe’ in a self-fulfilling prophecy bubble. Feeling like you have choices may convince you that you have more choices than you have and trap you indecision!

Follow the advice below It’s difficult to address this concern without stepping into the controversy of still-existing different societally acceptable behaviors for each gender.


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